Would you rather:
1.) Create a scenario where there is a possibly of being disappointed later or,
2.) Create a scenario where you have a 100% guarantee of being disappointed now?
When you make up a Worst Case Scenario (WCS) in your mind, your subconscious brain immediately experiences that scenario as if it has already happened, along with all the disappointment and upsetting emotions that accompany that experience. Those emotions then release chemicals and hormones in your body that are detrimental to your health and are actually even fattening.
When you make up a Best Case Scenario (BCS) on the other hand, opposite chemicals are released in your body that prepare you for open-minded, outside-the-box thinking, so if the bad things do happen, you can quickly find a creative way out or will find it much easier to come up with a great solution or remedy.
WCS thinking puts you in a crummy state that shuts you down, traps you in fight or flight mode, closes the mind down and paints you into a corner. Now if the bad things happen that you were fearing in your WCS state, you have effectively trapped yourself and will find it extremely difficult to come up with any creative ways out.
WCS thinking is also bad for your brain. Blood vessels restrict when you are in that state, so the blood flow to your brain is reduced. Your breathing becomes shallow, so the oxygen to your brain is also reduced. Cortisol and other flight or flight chemicals and hormones are released and if sustained, will cause inflammation, which is also bad for your brain. You won’t sleep very well at night either and this has been shown in numerous studies to also be extremely bad for your brain. I could go on and on, but I’m sure you get the picture.
Here’s the bottom line: When you find yourself creating a WCS in your brain, catch yourself doing it. That’s the first step. Then think of the opposite scenario, which would be your BCS. Then dwell on that.
Your brain is designed for stories. It has to have them. If you don’t feed it stories you make up, it will make up some of its own. You don’t want it to do that though because it will make up WCS over BCS about 95% of the time. Why? Because it’s programmed for survival and preservation first and foremost and that programming makes it notice danger and things to avoid and move away from, over of cool, awesome things to move toward. It’s “away from” motivated instead of “toward” motivated. You can consciously create “toward” motivation though, with BCS stories, so why not?
That vast majority of your WCS stories never come true anyway, do they? But simply creating that WCS puts you through the experience as if it did happen, along with all the fattening and unhealthy chemicals that go with that state.
If you take all those WCS stories and turn them into BCS stories, they might not come true either, but at least you put yourself through that positive experience instead.
People tell me, “I would do that, but if it doesn’t come true, I’ll be disappointed, so I’d rather not get my hopes up.” Yes, that is true and there is a chance that you might be disappointed later, but there’s also a chance that you won’t. With WCS thinking, it’s a 100% chance of disappointment, immediately, and then for as long as you are mulling that WCS over.
Since your mind is going to make up stories on it own anyway, why not take over the process and create BCS stories? Of course this is easier said than done because it goes against our wiring, but with time and practice, that wiring begins to change and with enough diligence, it can become your new automatic response and then you are getting healthier, happier and thinner!
A wise Jewish carpenter had this whole thing figured out more than 2000 years ago and gave us some amazing advice. He said, “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life? And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.
Check out my VLOG below, watch me test the EMFs, listen to the discussion and then YOU decide!
I was recently talking to my hilarious nephew Ryan about how modern dietitians think they are giving good advice by telling people to eat “healthy” whole grains. They are obviously just repeating the misinformation they have been taught in school and certainly haven’t done any independent research on their own, because if they had, they would know know that whole grains are all extremely fattening, no matter how “healthy” they might be labeled.
In fact, the “science” that “indicated” that “healthy” whole grains assisted with weight loss, was in fact, only one study that showed “healthy” whole grain breads were merely “less fattening” than breads made from the more refined white flour. This study showed that subjects gained 9 pounds from eating bread made from white flour, while subjects who ate “healthy” whole grains, gained only 8 pounds.
Yep, this is the study that started the whole “healthy” grain myth.
And your local media is still perpetuating it.
And your local brain-washed dietician is probably perpetuating it too.
My nephew Ryan doesn’t eat grains, because he knows better. If he did them though – and knew this information – and was making a choice between eating “healthy” whole grain bread and bread made from white flour, the choice really boils down to (as he put it), “Well, do I want “B” cup man-boobs or “C” cup man-boobs?”
I laughed so hard, I got an ab cramp.
So what’s the truth? What’s the best advice? Here is is. There’s only one choice: Cut out all grains. Period. There is no such thing as a “healthy” grain, whole or not.
Humans have NO BUSINESS eating ANY modern grains. Modern grains simply aren’t fit for human consumption – especially wheat. Modern grains have been bred and altered over the last 70 years (and especially in the last 20 years) to be sweeter and to have the highest possible effect on the opiate centers in the brain. This maximizes their addictive nature, so the manufacturers end up selling more product and gaining more repeat customers (just like drug dealers). It also renders these grains mostly indigestible and extremely fattening. In fact, our modern bread – “healthy” or not – is even more fattening than straight sugar!
What about European bread or bread from other countries? Nope. That’s bad too. Some rare forms aren’t as bad as the bread we make here in America, but even the “best” breads will still give you “A” cup man-boobs at best.
What about ancient wheat from 2000 years ago? Well, that was probably OK, actually. The problem is that we have bred that wheat completely out of existence. That wheat is now extinct on our planet. It doesn’t exist anywhere anymore. It’s gone and it’s never coming back. And the rest of the grains have followed suit, thanks to our insatiable craving for foods that alter our brain chemistry (the biggest business growth sector in the food industry over the last 50 years), changing the state we are in (temporarily), just like drugs such as cocaine.
Yep, we are drug addicts, hooked on modern grains because of their enhanced effect on the the opiate receptors in our brains.
And the grain manufacturers know it. And they are laughing all the way to the bank.
If you are a grain lover but don’t believe this, try going cold turkey off grains. 93% of the people who try, can’t even make it 3 weeks.
That’s a worse success rate than people who go cold turkey off cocaine.
My girlfriend Beverly shares the same passion I do for help in helping people, especially with their health and fitness. She is a major contributor to online groups that share health information with each other. Bev has gathered quite a following from people who look to her for advice on what’s really true and effective with health and nutrition, because of so many conflicting messages out there – especially with the mass media who seems to be more confused than a chameleon in a bag of Skittles.
Here is an example of a comment from one of her advice seekers:
“Just came across this – curious what your thoughts are:” http://www.cnn.com/2010/HEALTH/11/08/twinkie.diet.professor/
Thanks for posting this article. I love stuff like this. I think his premise that, “In weight loss, pure calorie counting is what matters most — not the nutritional value of the food.”…..is BOGUS!!!!!!! This is a shameful statement – coming from a NUTRITION professor.
ANYONE knows that nutrients are what feed the brain and help the body achieve it’s optimum health. There are PLENTY of well-designed, legitimate studies to prove this point.
In a nutshell, this is a pathetic excuse for an “experiment”. A 10 week time period tells you nothing about the true affects of his “diet”. BMI is a worthless indicator. I would like to see some actually useful statistics like muscle lost, etc. The ultimate epitome of bad science is using a study group of 1 and having the study only go for 10 weeks.
This is a completely uncontrolled experiment because we are expected to trust him and his report based on blind faith of someone we don’t even know, who had absolutely no supervision. He didn’t even attempt to involve a single legitimate scientist.
Professors pull publicity stunts like this all the time to advance themselves in their career and get attention. There have been plenty of cases of them being exposed after the fact as a fraud.
Most studies that intend to produce bias results are notorious for lasting 12 weeks or less, because bad scientists know that in this amount of time you can tweak the variables to prove just about anything you want. This is why so many pharmaceutical studies last only 12 weeks, even though they know full well that their customers will be using their products for months, if not years.
Well-designed, legitimate studies last a year or more with hundreds (or thousands) of subjects involved. Even though this professor’s “experiment” had a sample of 1, I’d still like to see this guy continue this diet for a year or more, closely observed 24-7 by an independent, unbiased scientist ensuring he’s being honest and consistent with all foods, activity, etc. to control variables. I’d be willing to bet the bank that he wouldn’t make it a year without ending up in the hospital from some nutrient deficiency disease or major health event.
For those of you who want to know how to discern what is believable and what is not in regards to experiments and science, check out this video: https://www.youtube.
My comments/rant (I can’t help it):
Well said Bev!
His poor, young, impressionable students unfortunately think of him as an authority because he is their “Professor” and this horrible lesson will stick in their minds, causing them to mislead other people and perpetuate this gross and negligent display of misinformation.
This pathetic excuse for a teacher is a perfect example of the typical nutrition professor and the ridiculous, absurd things they teach the nutrition students of today. It’s no wonder why current students are still spreading major misinformation, as most traditional dietitians are direct contributers the obesity pandemic in this country. They tell people to eat “healthy” whole grains and other advice that makes people sicker and fatter, instead of advice that actually works, like cutting out all grains completely. Most dietitians also continue to preach the fatally flawed, “Calorie In – Calorie Out” theory this professor is trying to substantiate with this complete joke of an experiment.
Shame on him!
Note: I purposely didn’t mention the professor’s real name in this post, because I refuse to give him any bump in exposure with the search engines, since I suspect that is part of his intention behind this crazy scheme. Most people who pull stunts like this show everyone their true colors: That that they care nothing about the health and welfare of the public, but only about their own selfish ambition to attract attention.
In the second part, I will discuss how to actually make your resolution successful this year.
Part 1: Are you a New Year’s Resolutionary?
Every year, about 3 out of 4 people make a New Year’s resolution to lose weight, exercise, and/or eat healthier. Statistics show that only 45% of the people who make this resolution admit to making it, while about 30% of the people who make this resolution don’t actually admit it to anyone else, because they have failed so many times in prior years. They are afraid of repeating the failure, so they don’t vocalize in order to save face.
Whether they admit it or not, only 8% of the people who make this resolution actually succeed. In reality, it’s really more like 3%, but there’s always that 5% who say they achieved it even though they really really didn’t, because they don’t want to admit their failure.
Then these same people who keep failing every year, decide for some strange reason, to do the same thing they did every other year and then for the same strange reason, they somehow expect different results. Ben Franklin claimed that doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results was the definition of insanity. Albert Einstein also had a very similar quote he was know for, with slightly different wording but the same basic idea. Those were a couple really smart guys, from very different eras, spanning hundreds of years, so as you can see, this has been a problem with the human race for quite some time. I’m sure it dates back even further, probably until the dawn of man.
So why do so many people keep doing this every year? Well, I have a good answer for that: Because they actually don’t know any better. They don’t have any new options they are aware of, so they just keep doing the same thing over and over. Most people don’t actually know they are repeating the same things however, because they often think they actually are doing something different when they really aren’t.
For instance, the people of 2013 were doing the P90X workout from the popular TV infomercial. That might have worked temporarily, if they stuck with the entire nine hours of exercise every week and strict nutrition program for the entire 90 days, but then the weight came back on (or more) when they quit all those things. Then those same people bought the Insanity workout in 2014 from the same infomercial company that brought them the P90X workout. They repeated similar results, with the weight coming back on afterward, just as it did in 2013. What they don’t realize, is those workouts are essentially the same. They might look different, and even feel different, but it’s all about the reps and movements and how those reps and movements are done. I often wonder if the parent corporation (Beach Body) for P90X purposely named their next big workout campaign “Insanity” because they were making their own little inside joke with Franklin and Einstein, as they knew it was essentially just the same…
You see, traditional weight training reps and traditional cardio movements are all the same at their essence. Whether you are doing an infomercial purchased on TV, training at a CrossFit gym, or working out at 24 hour fitness, you’re doing traditional training, which involves fast, ballistic repetitions, and lots of them, for a long period of time. As you can probably see now, “traditional training” comes in many forms, but it’s really all the same. It’s just gift wrapped differently with a different color bow on the outside and given a different name.
Traditional nutrition guidance and advice also doesn’t change enough from year to year to be truly effective. The vast majority of dietitians, doctors and other nutritional counselors are still preaching the “calorie in – calorie out” theory that millions of people prove wrong every year. It just doesn’t work, but everyone is still doing it, along with traditional exercise, because they don’t know any better. They don’t know about other options like X Gym training and nutrition guidance that actually works, because it is truly different.
Breaking the definition of insanity requires doing something different – like X Gym. People come to me all the time, doubting the X Gym’s effectiveness, because they just can’t believe that 21 minutes, twice a week is all that is needed to achieve fitness, especially when they have been doing traditional training in the past, which requires hours per week. They know traditional training hasn’t been working for them, but because they don’t know any different, they don’t think there’s any other way. So while they are sitting there defending their current exercise method to me that hasn’t produced any results for them, I just ask them, “OK, and how’s that been working for you?” Obviously, they always reply with the answer that it hasn’t and is in fact, the reason they are there sitting talking to me in the first place. If it was working for them they’d still be doing it.
So then we get started with their program and after a month or two, they are finally used to the idea of exercising only twice a week, and they are also starting to get the nutrition piece down, which creates an amazingly powerful combination, producing results they can actually see in the mirror, and feel in their body. This of course encourages them, and they keep going, continuing to experience the strength, endurance, toning, conditioning, cardio and mental improvement X Gymers enjoy.
So what’s the difference you ask? Well, if you’re asking this, then you haven’t tried the X Gym yet, and I would certainly encourage you to come in for the free intro, or buy the video so you can see for yourself why it’s so different and how that will help you finally get the results you’re after, as well as make those results permanent.
In a nutshell, the X Gym workout is different for the following reasons:
X Gym methods require a different way of doing each repetition. Each way is called a “Protocol.”
The “Protocol” (the way each rep is done) is changed every seven weeks for the one-on-one personal training clients and every four weeks for the group training clients. There are seven protocols, so those who stay at the X Gym for a year or more (which is most of the clients), find that they cycle back to the original starting protocol. By then however, their muscles have forgotten that the original protocol, so progress continues and plateaus are minimized drastically over traditional training.
The exercises themselves also change every seven weeks (or every four weeks for group). This constant change in exercises and protocols causes results to be attained at about twice the rate of traditional training, which only changes the exercises from time to time, but not the protocol (the way the rep itself is done). For more info on what we mean by changing the way the rep is done, just go to xgym.com and scroll down until you see the intro workout video.
The way the X Gym workout is performed is also completely different from traditional training. The sets are to complete muscle fatigue, and only one set per exercise is needed. This set however, takes 2 to 3 minutes to complete, instead of about 15 seconds for a traditional training set. The extended X Gym sets are what gives X Gym clients endurance results from the workout. The full muscle fatigue at the end of the set is what gives X Gym clients strength results from the workout. There are typically 5-7 compound exercises performed, which comprehensively targets all the muscle groups in the body. The heart rate spike that always accompanies full muscle fatigue is what gives X Gym clients cardio improvement from the workout. All this combined, is what gives the X Gym workout the largest fat burning effect of any exercise routine.
This is a very short overview, but it gives you an idea as to what makes the X Gym program truly different from traditional training and is why it is so much more effective. It’s also much safer, because the long duration of the sets and constant time under tension during that set necessitates light weights. The repetitions themselves are also very controlled, with form being of utmost importance, so that builds in yet another layer of safety not enjoyed with traditional training.
Still confused? I don’t blame you. It’s so different, it’s actually hard for even me to explain, and I invented it. It’s hard to explain because I can’t say, “It’s kind of like this, or it’s kind of like that” because it’s really not kind of like anything else in the fitness industry. If you haven’t experienced the X Gym workout, just go to www.xgym.com and watch the intro workout video on the homepage. You still won’t get it completely, but at least you’ll get it a little bit more than you do now. The only way to really get it though, is to come in and try it, or get the workout DVD.
Isn’t it trying to try something different for a change this year and break away from the definition of insanity?
Part 2: How to Keep Your New Year’s Resolutions in 7 Easy Steps.
Step 1: Surround yourself with supportive peers. Get their buy-in and their promise to support you and to hold you accountable to your goals. Here’s how to do that: Instead of telling them that you need their support, ask them if you can have their support. It’s very different between telling and asking, because when you ask, they actually file it away in their subconscious that they have committed to supporting you. If they had been told to support you, their subconscious hasn’t made that commitment and it will be less likely to happen.
Step 2. Take small steps. Most resolutionaries bite off way more than they can chew. Then they burn out or become overwhelmed, and just quit in frustration. Instead, start with one step – like drinking more water for instance, and then move on to the next step, like eating more veggies, only after you have successfully mastered the last step. Below are some suggested steps:
Note: Be sure to take these steps at your own pace. Some steps will be easy and may only take a week to establish as a lifestyle habit. Other steps may take months, but if you move too fast and take steps too soon, your likelyhood for success will plummet.
Step 3. Grab a workout partner or hire trainer and make an appointment in your schedule with that person for each workout. Accountability is huge and if both of you are committed, you will keep each other going. It’s also important to make this a top priority appointment that you enter into your computer or phone schedule, so you remember to schedule other things around it.
Step 4. Train in the morning. Morning exercisers are twice as likely to stick with it because willpower is at its peak in the morning and at its lowest in the evening, which explains why evening exercisers are half as likely to stick with it. Once you have established your routine and you feel like it is part of your lifestyle, then you can consider training during other times of day, but whether or not you are a morning person, you should start out training in the morning while you are forming this new lifestyle habit. “Morning” may mean different things to different people, depending on your work shift, so your “morning” is whenever you wake up.
Step 5. Keep track of your progress by recording your workouts and testing and retesting of your fitness, body composition, measurements, etc. This will help motivate you and keep you going.
Step 6. Keep a food log. Studies show that people who record the food they eat get at least 30% better results than those who don’t. My current favorite food log is myfitnesspal.com because it seems to have the largest database, as well as best ease-of-use, both on the computer and through the smartphone app.
Step 7. Try something new. This step could of course go before or after any of the steps above, but it is vitally important, because as I mentioned in the previous section, you’ve most likely been doing the same thing over and over (even if you didn’t know it) and that hasn’t been working for you, so it’s time to try something you’ve never tried before. Plus, that’s more fun! If you haven’t tried the X Gym or X Gym workout DVD, start with that!